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Start Living Your Life Instead Of Comparing It

The grass is only as green as you make it

Arron Fornasetti
3 min readNov 4, 2020
Photo by Khalil Yamoun on Unsplash

Comparison is a double-edged sword. While it can be used for motivation, it’s widely used in a negative way. People compare their life to what others have achieved in theirs. Unfortunately, this is how people end up chasing after the wrong things.

Comparison is a waste of time and a foolish thing to do. People compare their shortcomings to other’s highlights, yet they don’t see what happens behind closed doors. People only show what they want others to see instead of the entire picture. If someone were to show everything, their life may not be as interesting.

What Really Matters To You

When you compare yourself to others, you end up playing a losing game. You will never be happy no matter how much you accomplish. Every time you see someone doing a little better than you, you’ll keep wanting more until you end up losing yourself.

Life isn’t a competition. If you are to compete against anyone, it should be against yourself.

Know Yourself

Most people compare themselves to others because they don’t know who they are or what they want out of life. Another reason can be insecurities they have yet to address. Many people tie…

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Arron Fornasetti
Arron Fornasetti

Written by Arron Fornasetti

We as humans can learn a lot from ants. Don’t be nice, be kind.

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